Dating & Your Time
- Posted on July 24th, 2007 in Dating Tips for Men, Dating Tips for Women
Sometimes dating can feel like a chore. Between work, school, friends, kids, pets, cleaning, cooking, and your hobbies you are a busy person. So how can you make time for romance in your life? Here’s a few suggestions on how to make dating more manageable.
Keep your first date short & simple. With so many guys and girls out there to choose from - you need to be selective. When you go on a short date you’ll find out if you have chemistry in just an hour or two – if there’s not you move on to the next.
Short dates help you date at lunch, after work, or on a weekend afternoon. This way your whole evening or weekend isn’t consumed if your date turns out to be a dud. Save your time for when the right person comes along.
Go online. When you date online you’ll meet more potential dates than you can imagine. There really is no better way of meeting loads of quality men and women than by going online. Sort through photos and profiles to give you a quick glimpse into someone’s life. If you find someone that catches your eye then make a move.
Follow these tips and you’ll have more time to find someone worth your time.
xo Debbie
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November 9th, 2007 at 7:43 am
This is one of the biggst fallacies in dating these days. It’s sad that it starts up front. If you’re going to only give someone an hour or two of time, it puts pressure on both people. All of a sudden, something that you have no control over either has to “be there” or not. And chemistry isn’t something that is absolute. Even in a long relationship, you don’t always have chemistry together - a bad day at work, illness, that “time of the month” can all have an effect on how you’re feeling and how “into” romance you are. I think it’s more important in dating to get to know people, and when you do get to the point of meeting someone, plan on giving them a few dates/meetings to get to know them and break the ice. It’s a bigger problem that we are all holding out for some “instant chemistry” that really doesn’t have any substance to making a relationhip last. Sure, you have to have chemistry with someone. But there are a litany of things that are far more important in terms of being able to make a relationship last.
November 20th, 2007 at 6:37 pm
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