Debbie Does Dating

Ask Debbie: How Can I Meet A Great Date?

• Posted on June 7th, 2007 in Ask Debbie, Dating Tips for Women, Online Dating

Dear Debbie ,

I hear that you’re the online dating expert. Can you tell me how I can meet a prince and ditch all these frogs?

-Diana in Distress

Dear Diana,

I’m sorry that so many frogs have been showing up at your doorstep. Don’t give up hope - there are princes out there! Dating is really a numbers game and the more you play – the more you win. What I mean is that, the more you put yourself out there, the more you increase your chances to meet someone great. If you meet 10 men versus 100 men, which batch is more likely to have a winner in it?

Get out more and make new friends. Friends are one of the best ways to meet men. If you are new in town or most of your friends are married, you still have options.

Online dating gives you a chance to meet many different types of men. And the best part is you never have to leave your living room! I think the optimal number of dating sites to join is one to three. If you join three, you’ll meet the broadest range of men, but won’t feel overwhelmed.

Finally, always trust your instincts. If you get a bad vibe in a profile or an email, then don’t meet up in person. The more you start listening to yourself, the sooner you’ll find someone that’s right for you.

xDebbie

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